Patrick
I've been going through some pretty tough times with my separation and my therapist put me on a combination of Depakote and Paxil. After a short period I could see a change in myself for the better...I wasn't so moody, I didn't have high anxieties as before and i could feel good about who I was and where I was going. My cousin has tried the same combination and so has a co-worker. Boy! There are a lot of folks out there who feel like life is really stomping on them, but I guess it comes with the way society is today. Whether or not this made any sense, I'm not sure, but I do know Paxil is helping me tremendously. Try to see what it can do for your husband...and keep loving him with all that you are...good luck...