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                        Lois !  I became discouraged with no replies and quit checking the messages about the same time you wrote asking me to E-mail---so I didn't know all this time until 4 days ago!! I'm so sorry.  I wrote to the E-ddress you provided , and got the E-rejection "no such person" notice today.  Are you still out there???! I've gotten so much more info. in the last few months, and I'd like to help you if I can.  My oldest daughter is 20---and I know this HAS to be very HARD on your young self-esteem, because it's SO hard on my "old" one!  Please contact me at A2ns1E@aol.com---You're in my prayers---Annie