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                        my son caleb is about to turn 4.  the dr.s are having a hard time diagnosing him.  they want to call him autistic, because he shows a lot of the traits of autism.  however they can't because he has too many other traits that are not autistic.  this has caused many problems as far as treatment goes.  i want him to be getting help and feel he is not ready for mainstream.  any suggestions are welcome.