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                        I was recently diagonsed with HPV.  My partner has not yeu been tested but I am afraid he won't have it.  I don't want to give it to him, but I love him so much.  I told him that  if he does not have it, then I would leave him.  We could still be friends.  I really don't have any advice to give you, but I totally understand what you are going through. If you want to talk, email me sometime and I would be happy to talk to you.