Dan
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                        
                        
                        Hi!  I certainly sympatise with you. I had  over 10 surgeries to correst this  malformation, I was 25 when it was done.  I managed to have 2 boys prior to the  operation and one during the healing of  the surgery. I am still not over it...  Meaning I feel as a man...but I lost out  somewhere....If I can give you support,  I am here