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                        Hi  Oatmeal and pears  is really good. I am hearing that she is afraid. You need to make her as calm as possible andhelp her understand that it is ok to move her bowels.  When she see's and feels that you are  so upset it is telling her not to do it.  When you become calm about it she will to.