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                        Haven't you seen your doctor?  There areso MANY meds for just your problem.  I am WAY past menopause & ha dNO trouble with it but I have a lot of anxiety & deepression b/c of years of illness that are painful & have NO cure so get very cranky, touchy, up & down, etc.  Look in the computer and research menopause..I see it all the time and surely you will find suggestions and I KNOW meds ar emade for that.