Tess Ortiz
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                        
                        
                        My 90 year old grandmother has Aplastic anemia.  She's in a nursing home right now.  Her hemoglobin is now 6.5.  There is no more treatment for her.  My problem is that I go to bed every night wondering is this the last day I see her alive.  I want to be there in her final moments.  I am also the only person that goes to see her.  I also was force to make all the funeral arrangement by myself my sister and my father do not want to see her - I don't know why.  I need to have an idea of what to expect will happen to her now and at what hemoglobin level is this fatal.  I found out three weeks ago that there is nothing more the doctors can do.  I want to be prepare and I can seem to relax and just allow it to happen. I feel I won't be there in her final hour to confort her.  Please give me your advise.  Thank you.