Amanda
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                        
                        
                        Hi, I've had the same exact feelings as you.  Actually,  I posted a message just a few weeks ago that sounded a lot like yours.    I was diagnosed with IC when I was 22.  I will be 25 in January.  I tried many treatments; DMSO, strong anti-inflammatories, changing my diet, etc.  None of these helped.  At times I was doubled over in pain and like you had considered bladder removal.  Wait!  Don't do it!  Have you tried any anti-anxiety drugs?  That's what saved me and my bladder.  I realized that I've had anxiety since I was very young and my theory is that IC can stem from anxiety.  I say that "I take my stress out on my bladder".  My whole IC ordeal is of course a lot more drawn out & complicated & frustrating & painfull,  but I've finally realized that anxiety pills are the closest thing to a cure for me,  so just something to consider.  Amanda