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                        This posting is so old I don't know if you still need somebody.  But, I also was recently diagnosed with melanoma and have started visiting Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York City.  They are supposed to be one of the top centers for cancer and melanoma.  I wish you lots of luck.