Eileen
I am an eating disorders counselor and have a lot of helpful info if you are interested. Please feel free to write to me. The most important thing you can do right now is do not and I repeat do NOT make food the issue. Not eating is only a symptom of anorexia. Your girlfriend needs the reassurance that you love her no matter what. I can make a referral to another counselor in your area if you would like some help closer to your area. All the best, eileen