Sally Martin
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                    
                        
                        
                        My husband (46 at the time) is severely brain injured following a heart attack.  This happened one and one half years ago.  I know first-hand of the agony of watching someone you love going through something that cannot be changed.  I don't know if I can help you, but I saw your message and had to reply.