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                        Becky,    The symptoms your son has are common in boys with an extra female sex chromosome.  You might ask the doctor if he will do a Barr body test.  It's just a swipe of the inside of the cheek.  The Barr bodies would give a reason to do a karyotype to be sure.    Good luck.  I know how embarrassing the swearing is.    Linda